Is binge-watching K-dramas until 3am a hobby, or a quiet cry for help?
Just one more episode becomes the whole night. Healthy comfort and escapism, or are we using fictional love to avoid our real lives?
Just one more episode becomes the whole night. Healthy comfort and escapism, or are we using fictional love to avoid our real lives?
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Add your commentIt's a hobby. People run marathons to escape their lives too and we call them 'disciplined'. Let me have my ramyeon and heartbreak.
There's a fine line between 'comfort watching' and 'using a fictional couple to not think about how alone I feel' and I cross it nightly.
It's a hobby until you're rescheduling your life around a 16-episode release. Then it's a relationship.
The parasocial attachment to these couples is REAL and we should talk about it more honestly, lovingly, while watching episode 15.
I use K-dramas to FEEL things I'm too closed off to feel in real life. That's either healing or avoidance and I genuinely can't tell.
Calling a hobby a 'cry for help' is so condescending. Nobody says this about people who watch 9 hours of football.
3am, episode 14, sobbing, work in 4 hours. I have done this and would do it again. It's not sad, it's living.
Be honest, half of us are watching couples fall in love because it's safer than risking it ourselves. Just me? Okay.
I learned more about emotional vulnerability from K-dramas than from my entire upbringing. If that's a cry for help it's a productive one.
I watched 6 episodes after a breakup and it was cheaper than therapy and more effective than my ex. No notes.
Escapism becomes a problem when it replaces your life, not when it's Friday night and you're tired. Most of you are fine.
The 'one more episode' design is literally engineered addiction. Don't blame yourself, blame the cliffhanger writers.
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