Should you have to 'earn' retirement, or is rest a basic human right?

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  Liam2w ago

  I watched my mom spend 38 years as a home health aide, destroying her knees, and she gets $890 a month in Social Security. $890. She earned rest with her literal body and that's what she got. Don't tell me the system rewards hard work.

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  Reese5d ago

  I retired at 61 after 40 years in construction. Both knees replaced. Partial hearing loss. A compressed disc that never healed right. I 'earned' my rest the way a car earns the junkyard. The word earned doesn't mean what people think it means.

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  Morgan1w ago

  I just turned 60 and I'm scared. I have $47,000 in savings. That's it. I did everything right — stayed employed, raised kids, kept my head above water. The system isn't broken for edge cases. It's broken for normal people.

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  Sam1w ago

  I'm a nurse. My feet hurt every single day. I am 58. I have one coworker who is 67 and she says she can't afford to stop. We are keeping people alive with broken bodies because the alternative is poverty. This is not a philosophical debate to me.

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  Yuki2w ago

  My therapist told me I have 'work guilt' — I literally feel physical anxiety if I'm not being productive. I'm 34. I have never actually rested. I don't know how. This system broke something in me.

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  Quinn2w ago

  The entire concept of a 'retirement age' was invented by Bismarck in 1889 when life expectancy was 45. We're still using a system designed for a world that no longer exists.

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    Drew2w ago

    Bismarck's retirement age was 70 when average life expectancy was around 45, meaning most people NEVER collected. It was fiscal theater, not generosity. We inherited a scam and called it tradition.

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  Elena 922d ago

  I watched my mom work two jobs until she was 71. Home health aide and cashier. She passed last spring at 74. Three years of retirement that were mostly doctor appointments and exhaustion recovery. I cannot argue the abstract side of this question. I just can't.

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  Iris 211w ago

  The weird thing is we accept that children deserve care before they've contributed anything. We accept that. So we already believe humans have value outside their labor. We just arbitrarily stop believing it at age 18.

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  Taylor2w ago

  Rest is not a reward. You don't have to earn oxygen either. The framing of 'earning' rest is something employers invented so you'd feel guilty about not producing.

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    Jordan T.2w ago

    Hard disagree with the 'rest is a right' crowd. Rights don't require other people to fund them. That's a service. Call it what it is.

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  Kofi1w ago

  Rest is not a reward. Oxygen is not a reward. Sleep is not a reward. We don't make people 'earn' the right to eat lunch. The framing of the entire question already concedes too much to people who benefit from you never stopping.

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  Feli1w ago

  My dad would literally say 'idle hands do the devil's work' anytime we sat still for five minutes. That sentence permanently damaged my relationship with leisure. Some of us were conditioned to believe rest is moral failure.

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  Jamie2w ago

  By that logic clean water isn't a right either since infrastructure costs money. The word 'right' has never meant 'free with zero societal cost.' That's not how rights work historically or philosophically.

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  Drew1d ago

  The answer is that 'we' didn't build it. Specific people and institutions built and captured it. The civilization-scale wealth and the individual human exhaustion are not a contradiction — they're the same system working as designed. That's the uncomfortable truth this debate keeps dancing around.

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  Liam1w ago

  The reason retirement feels radical now is because we normalized a thing that would have horrified every pre-industrial society — spending your entire conscious life earning money for someone else. THAT should feel strange.

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  Jamie2w ago

  The US has 22 trillion in household wealth at the top 1%. This is not a scarcity problem. It is a distribution problem. Please stop confusing the two.

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  Iris1w ago

  This isn't really about rest vs. work. It's about power. When you can't afford to stop, you can't say no. That's the whole point. Precarity is a management tool.

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  Taylor2d ago

  The 'we're too different to copy what works' argument has been used to block every social advancement in American history. Healthcare, labor protections, parental leave. Every single time. At what point does that argument just become 'we don't want to'?

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  Theo T.2w ago

  I'm 71. Still working part time at a hardware store. Not because I have to, because I genuinely don't know who I am without work. Some of us aren't waiting to rest. Think about that before you speak for all old people.

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  Sam1w ago

  They also had deep seasonal rest built in — feast days, sabbath, winters, communal celebration. Medieval peasants worked fewer hours annually than the average American. This is documented. Look up Juliet Schor.

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  Elena1w ago

  The people arguing rest must be 'earned' are usually people whose jobs don't physically destroy them. Easy to have that opinion when work is a chair and a screen.

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  Feli2w ago

  Counterpoint: meaningful work gives people purpose, dignity, community. Forced early retirement is genuinely associated with cognitive decline. Maybe the goal isn't 'stop working' but 'work on your own terms.'

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  Iris2d ago

  Societies that have generous universal retirement systems — Norway, Denmark, Netherlands — consistently score higher on happiness, productivity, and even entrepreneurship. Because when failure doesn't mean dying in poverty people actually take more risks and innovate more. The whole 'we can't afford it' argument is empirically backwards.

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  Maya1w ago

  This. This is the comment that should end the debate. Thank you for being honest. Most people in this thread arguing about theory are one medical bill away from your situation.

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  Leo1w ago

  Finland's UBI trial showed improved wellbeing and NO reduction in work participation. The 'people will just stop working' fear was empirically wrong. Facts matter.

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  Morgan4d ago

  My honest take: the people screaming loudest about others not 'earning' rest are the ones most terrified to stop because if they stop they'll have to sit with themselves. It's not a moral argument. It's an anxiety disorder that got dressed up as a work ethic.

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  Sam S.2w ago

  Dismissing someone's lived experience with 'that's just anxiety' is such a cold take. The environment shapes the anxiety. Whether or not it predates capitalism, capitalism absolutely weaponizes it.

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  Alex2d ago

  there's something deeply weird about a species that figured out agriculture, medicine, electricity, the internet, nuclear fission — and still tells its elders to stock shelves at walmart or starve. like at some point you have to ask what the whole project was even FOR

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  Drew2w ago

  We automated half of human labor and somehow ended up working MORE. Where did all that productivity go? Not to your retirement, that's for sure.

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  Kofi M.2w ago

  ok but who pays for it tho. rest doesnt just materialize. someone is always funding someone else's not working and im tired of pretending thats a small detail

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  Ravi1w ago

  Bold of this thread to act like there's a clean answer when literally every solution — pensions, Social Security, sovereign wealth funds, UBI — has tradeoffs and has been abused. The problem isn't ideology. The problem is that humans are bad at governing long-term anything.

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  Noah1w ago

  Pre-industrial peasants worked every single waking hour to survive. Let's not romanticize subsistence farming as some kind of dignified freedom.

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  Leo2w ago

  The real scandal is that we've defined human worth entirely through labor productivity and then acted surprised that people feel existential dread about stopping. We did this. We can undo it.

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  Avery2d ago

  Nobody said you can't find meaning in work. Work all your life if it makes you happy. The question is whether EVERYONE should be FORCED to because the alternative is destitution. Those are two completely different things and conflating them is exactly how this debate goes in circles.

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  Reese M.2w ago

  Yes! This is the actual conversation we should be having. It's not work vs. rest. It's coerced labor vs. voluntary contribution. Huge difference.

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    Drew _x2w ago

    imagine defending the idea that people should work until they die because it gives them 'purpose.' who benefits from that framing? hint: not the workers

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  Casey R.1w ago

  Universal Basic Income solves this entire debate and everyone just refuses to have that conversation seriously because it threatens the people who profit from your insecurity.

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  Jordan1d ago

  Working in elder law and seeing a subset of clients who have assets is not the same as saying the systemic problem doesn't exist. You're describing outliers and I'm worried you're using them to dismiss millions of people who genuinely have nothing.

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  Hana1w ago

  The philosophical question kind of answers itself: if you built the civilization, you deserve to live in it. That's the deal. We forgot the deal.

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  Alex R.1w ago

  The Finland trial was 2,000 people for two years. Extrapolating that to a nation of 330 million for fifty years is not 'facts,' it's a data point. Chill with the certainty.

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  Quinn2d ago

  Norway has North Sea oil revenue. Denmark and Netherlands are tiny homogeneous populations with specific economic structures. You cannot just copy-paste a country like you're forking a GitHub repo.

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  Maya T.1d ago

  genuinely asking: what is the point of building all this wealth as a civilization if the people who built it spend their final years in fear? not being rhetorical. i actually want someone to give me a serious answer to that question because i have never gotten one

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  Drew B.1w ago

  ok this one actually made me think. genuinely. i hate it when that happens on here

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  Leo3d ago

  That's a bit much, isn't it? Some of us genuinely find meaning and identity in work. Not everyone who believes in earning their way is secretly broken. That framing is just as reductive as calling people lazy.

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  Hana 211w ago

  UBI has been trialed in multiple countries now with genuinely mixed results. 'Solves this entire debate' is doing a lot of heavy lifting. It's a tool, not a magic spell.

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  Leo R.2w ago

  My grandfather worked till 67 and died at 69. He earned a retirement he barely got to taste. Tell me again how rest is a luxury.

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  Omar2w ago

  Nobody said work until you die. The comment literally said 'work on your own terms.' Reading comprehension is free.

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  Diego2w ago

  There's a huge difference between rest as in 'taking a break' and retirement as in 'society funds you indefinitely.' One is obviously fine, the other is a negotiation between generations.

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  Nina 921d ago

  Counterpoint nobody wants to hear: a lot of older people who 'can't afford to retire' are also carrying significant assets — paid-off homes, inheritance expectations — while claiming poverty. I work in elder law. The picture is messier than this thread suggests.

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  Sam _x2w ago

  lmao 'society this rich' — tell that to the national debt. we are borrowing from future generations to pay for current ones. that is not wealth, that's a credit card

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  Marco L.1d ago

  Didn't say that. Said the picture is messy. Policy that ignores asset-testing will, and consistently does, funnel resources away from people who actually need them toward people who don't. That's not dismissal, that's design.

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  Ravi 921w ago

  ok but who pays for it lol. serious question. not trolling. where does the money literally come from if everyone just gets to rest

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    Avery1w ago

    The same place it came from when we bailed out every bank that gambled itself into a ditch. We found it then pretty fast.

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  Ravi2w ago

  Nobody on their deathbed wishes they'd grinded two more years. We built a whole civilization and forgot to schedule the living part.

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  Taylor2w ago

  That's called anxiety and it predates capitalism fyi. Humans are naturally anxious. Not everything bad in your life is a systemic failure.

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  Yuki B.2w ago

  Every generation that 'earned' it pulled the ladder up behind them. The pension my dad got doesn't exist for me and he calls me lazy.

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