Dating1mo ago · 4 comments
Is it a red flag if a grown adult has no close friends?
They're kind, employed, lovely to you — but there's nobody else. Independence, or a warning the problem is them?
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Add your comment- Morgan1mo ago
If not one person from their past stuck around, you're either about to find out why, or you're about to become their entire emotional support system.
- Reese1mo ago
Or, hear me out, they moved cities for work, survived a pandemic, and friendship as an adult is genuinely hard. Not everything is a red flag.
- Maya1mo ago
Dated a guy with 'no close friends.' Turned out everyone who got close eventually saw something I hadn't yet. Listen to the silence.
- Marco1mo ago
Some of the kindest people are lonely because they kept choosing the wrong friends and finally stopped. Ask the story before you judge the symptom.
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