Dating1mo ago · 4 comments
Should you ghost someone, or do you always owe them closure?
A clean disappearance to avoid the drama, or the basic decency of a goodbye? Is ghosting ever the kind option, or always the coward's?
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Add your comment- Maya1mo ago
Two dates is not a relationship and you don't owe a stranger a breakup speech. But four months in and you vanish? That's not avoiding drama, that's cowardice with extra steps.
- Hana1mo ago
Sometimes ghosting is the safest exit there is. Not everyone leaving quietly is a coward — some are getting away from someone who scared them. Context, always.
- Feli 921mo ago
Closure is a gift you give yourself, not something another person owes you. Sometimes the silence IS the answer and you have to be adult enough to take it.
- Morgan1mo ago
Got ghosted after eight months. The not-knowing wrecked me harder than any breakup ever could. One text would've saved me a year of 'what did I do.'
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