Dating1mo ago · 4 comments
Should your past 'number' be any of your partner's business?
Some say full honesty, no secrets. Others say the past is the past. Does your partner have a right to ask — and to an answer?
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Add your comment- Elena1mo ago
Nobody asks for the number because they want a number. They ask because they want a reason to feel a certain way about you. Refuse the trap.
- Theo1mo ago
If you can't handle the answer, don't ask the question. The people who ask are never the people who can hear it calmly.
- Marco1mo ago
Double standard alert: watch how differently this thread treats a high number for a man vs a woman. The mask comes off fast.
- Theo T.1mo ago
Told the truth, watched his face change, and that look never fully left. Some honesty doesn't free you, it just hands them a weapon.
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